SIGNS THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND IS GIVING YOU RED CARD
Relationship can be a bed of roses during the peace time, on the other hand quite hectic, leading to depression and sorrow when misunderstanding sets in and many dislikes are spotted on the linen of the other partner.
Gone are the days when romantic affairs are ended by openly notifying the other partner directly, face to face or via a message that the affair has ended. These days, people embark on what I will call a ‘Tactical Withdrawal’.
Guys have there own way of ending a relationship without hurting none, which I call giving a red card. He would unveil the bitter truth so efficiently, like when HIV Status is disclosed to a new patient.
Like it is, but it is not.
Little by little she will get fed up and opt out by herself.
Some attitudes are herald of the end in a relationship and not just error that genuinely demands forgiveness. They are clear signs ladies should watch out to be wise enough to understand that the character is saying “Let’s end at this juncture and stop wasting time,we ain’t compatible”.
Trust is like an eraser, after you use it to clear so many errors, it begins to shrink to nothing, so if so many errors begins to occur in your relationship concurrently, think again to understand if it’s a breakup sign.
Here we go…
1.) TOO BUSY SYMBOL:
When a guy discovers a particular girl to be his missing rib, and swimming same ocean of love together, he would always check in time to be with her no matter how busy is his schedule. In fact , he won’t have a rest of mind whenever she’s absent.
But when the reverse becomes the case and he becomes too busy to be with you his beloved, then something is wrong. Flagging the too busy symbol could be a sign indicating the end of the road, and making it clear that your companion is no longer needed. Then, it’s necessary to re-evaluate your stand my lady, and think for what to die if you wanna live.
What must be must be, so don’t just jump into conclusions taking actions you may regret soon; that gentleman may really be busy. But most at times he’s tactically notifying you that your session has expired.
If he’s really opting out of the relationship, before you leave be sure you have to leave.
2.) LESS COMMUNICATION:
The importance of communication in every relationship cannot be overemphasized. I won’t start reminding you that returning a call to your mate is not only a special duty of the man. But I will enlighten you that when it happens to be only the duty of the woman, then something is definitely wrong.
It’s sad to say, but I must be frank about it.
When your man drastically reduces his rate of calling, texting, and reaching out to you compared to the past; his action is directly proportional to your economic importance in his life. And that means his precious air time has been re-directed to another point where greater value is attached. That’s the fact.
Maybe not all the time, because he maybe broke on the other hand and blank out. But in its actual sense, It’s a flicker of yellow card. So expect the red card soon from any frivolous mistake from your corner. And game over, so when you spot out this, be ready to dust your ass and go away, it could be quiet painful though.
3.) BLANK OUT FROM FAMILY:
The young man might have being blinded from love by first sight.
And as he gradually swims the stream of love with you, you unraveled a whole lot of unpleasant lifestyle concealed in you which he can’t condone.
Mind you, no man would like to quit a relationship he has built with his time and money, without spoting a reasonable amount of dislike beyond his control. Yeah, every lad would be triggered negatively by you the lady to discontinue a true relationship. Except the kick and go species.
So if he was so excited initially and overwhelmed in the ether of love bliss and had an initial plan of introducing you to his parents and getting to know each other’s family; then he suddenly paused and loose interest , then there is surely a strong opposing force in display.
Such sudden unwillingness is a very clear sign that you have or about to expire in his life cycle. He must have switched gears and changed plans. Or maybe a result of indecision and fear of settling down or other personal factors like not being ready.
When you encounter similar step down in relationship, pause, take a deep breath, swallow your pride and humbly ask your man what is the problem, in a respectful manner. The truth is that he doesn’t consider you worthy to be introduced to his family as a wife-to-be anymore. So it’s your duty to convince the young man that you are. Show him more love and respect and watch the outcome. And if symptoms persists, get ready to detach your emotions and withdraw tactically.
4.) EXTREME GREED :
Greed is an inbred human attribute used to protect possessions from unnecessary misuse. Greed is very vital in our lifestyle for preserving personal economy from wastage.
No man is greedy when he meets someone he admires, he’s either broke, or you don’t worth to earn that doe. When a boyo cast his eyes on the damsel that opens up the petal of his heart, his wallet opens as well. He would cheer her up with his money, possessions and belongings. But when the interest dies or reduces drastically, he spends less of his money and strictly control your access to his resources.
No clear eyed guy wants to continue investing in the life of someone he doesn’t want to share the future with. It’s a waste of man power taking care of the needs of a lady who is outside the bracket.So if he has been generous with his cash but now, you can no more access a recharge card when he’s financially stable, you should use your tongue to count your teeth because your red card is in process.
5.) AVOIDING PHYSICAL CONTACT:
Avoid the avoidable.
Even a fish can avoid problems by keeping it’s mouth shut. When a young man sees danger coming from the direction of the babe that he gave a pass key into his innermost life, he avoids further physical contact with her.
Because it’s more dangerous to be aware of the fire and proceed to put hands in it.
Don’t be surprise when your boyfriend start avoiding you. This is how you know it.
Try booking an appointment with him and he would accept, but attempt to actually come over and there would be many excuses here and there to prevent you from. coming. If you ask him to come to your place, that’s when he becomes too busy or not in town.
If the above symptom repeats over and over again, begin to get your mind made up, your red card has been approved.
6.) PICKING CALLS FROM HIS OTHER GIRLFRIEND :
When a man discovers a new website to browse and replace a boring one, he indirectly notify the babe who’s not actively in service that her company is no more required that she has been sharply replaced. One of the ways he would do this is by picking the calls of the new babe in the present of the old chick. Like discussing there new love wilderness.
Hey pretty lady, when your man is on the call, open wide thy ears like that of a rabbit, and if it’s his new princess on the call trying to unfold to a nest queen, don’t be quickly irked up. Be patient and watch if he would change. But if he continues this way, be aware you are categorized as old stock. It’s always difficult to advice a man under the influence of lust. This is a sign of tactical withdrawal . Be Aware.
7.) WIDRAWAL FROM SOCIAL OUTINGS :
A man will withdraw from going to the beach, eatery, swimming pool, cinema, shopping, etc. together with his lady is no longer comfortable with your company. He don’t want the public to be aware that he’s going out with you. He won’t even accompany you out of his neighborhood if you visited.
It means you are no longer presentable and is a sign expiring love.
8.) UNNECESSARILY ANGRY:
This is the most common symptom of red card men present to an old layer. This is how he do it, everything you do irks him up and excites anger.
Note that , when your cool man suddenly gets too hot and boiling always. You are about to be knocked out. Be aware PREVENT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, LEARN TO LET LOVE LEAD.