The True Relationship Goal

THE TRUE RELATIONSHIP GOAL

In summary, the ideal relationship goal is to attain true happiness and forever a loving/understanding couple. Indulging in a relationship is intending to develop a good companion. Creating a good companion can trigger a competent union between a set of individuals insinuating marriage. Venturing into a relationship can serve as a ground to learn courtship by blending the social differences acquired from different homes.

It would be an error to embark on the journey of marriage without first initiating the nursery and initial start. Behind the bar of wedlock is not the right ground to start spotting out individual’s mistakes either. Rather courtship is the suitable playground for such.

Intimacy can add more value to building trust, love, patience, and understanding in a relationship. A relationship which is equipped with these core value could be quite inspirational.
Relationship goals are best viewed as a guideline that prompts how to best give and receive love. It sounds simple, but it’s actually not. It involves a lot of sacrifices and endurance.

Core value of relationship goal should focus on facts and not fantasy as it should commit to building a long lasting relationship filled with understanding, happiness, and love that could sustain marital bliss and manage the challenges that could be encountered in marriage.

CORE VALUES OF RELATIONSHIP GOAL
Good relationship or marriage does not just exist. They are built and maintained by exercising love over power.
The core values of relationship goal include the special traits that ought to be searched for individually in that relationship and always adjusting it to be align with it’s supposed serviceable status.

1.) ONENESS:

And two shall become one. This Unique core value of relationship goal is an extraordinary attribute found only where there’s true love. The couple becomes a single entity in the presence of love and unity. It takes sacrifices of giving up personal interest and pursuits including social life to achieve this.
However, It’s vital in any relationship for each individual to maintain their own individuality and independence.

2.) LIFE LONG LEARNING:

Note that relationship and marriage are high institution that you get admitted into and you never graduate. Learning becomes a continuous process, such that you will keep on discovering a new thing every day of your life.

One a wonderful way to keep expanding in consciousness is to positively challenge each other to learn new skills and knowledge together. The relationship goal of lifelong learning keeps your intellect sharp, brilliant and efficient always.

3.) MUTUAL CONSIDERATION
Considering yourselves while making decisions and planning in a relationship will go a long way to keep the union alive.

One of the ultimate core value of relationship goal is to take care of each other. Put each other’s best interests high up in your decisions making factors. Handle each other’s heart space and emotions with respect and like your valued treasure. It’s very important.

4.) CHASTITY:

The bedrock of building a long lasting trust and love in a relationship is practicing chastity . Trust is like an ice block, the process of it melting down is irreversible. You must be for your partner alone to safe the head of innocent generation you are intending to build by wading off unnecessary individuals from playing similar role.

5.) HONESTY AND HUMILITY
As you make up mind to build a relationship with a partner of your right choice, honesty becomes more important on daily basis. A morning without makeup, the truth about your link with certain people and certain things, the true digit in your savings account, the truth about where you go etc.

Humility on the other hand is as important as honesty. Being humble to each other will aid in tolerating each other’s space. Such patience and love recovered by means of humility will be needed all the days of the relationship to keep it warm and alive.

6.) DO SOMETHING BIZARRE:
Do an abnormal thing out there, and make the special one feel more special. Like sing a love song loud to his hearing, toot loud to his hearing, buy a special gift he/she never expected from you.

Sometimes do something so crazy and silly, because this grand gesture leaves no doubt in your partner’s mind that they are loved. One way to remind your partner that you love them for real, for the long run, is just doing something for them that is bizarre and surprise him all the way long. Buy a giant teddy, order 300 flowers, blast a love song outside their window, present a special gift he was never expecting, crack jokes and laugh out loud.

Every once in a while, make your partner blush with attention and create a lifelong memory by doing something bizarre.

7.) BE PALS
Be his best friend, girl friend and his lover. Vis-a-vis be her best friend, boyfriend and lover. Be a paddy and a buddy to the beloved.

At the end of the day, your partner is your person, they (hopefully) know you inside out and (probably) spend the most time with you above anyone else.

8.) GO OUTINGS TOGETHER:
Attend some nice ceremony together, go to the gym, go shopping, hang out together, have some drinks, eat fishes and toast together. Make some days a blissful one.

There would be time when the relationship would mean less to you. At this juncture you need to aflame it with coming closer again. Going on outings together breathes fresh air into a relationship. Couples hitting all the core values of relationship goals involves doing new things together. You don’t have to go skydiving to adventure together, even if it’s a coffee shop down the street you’ve been meaning to try. Newness and spontaneity keeps the flame of your love alive.

9.) BE NICE
Be nice to your partner especially when your assistance is needed. Let him/ her know your strength and weakness. Because giving room for overrating you, will make him/her to demand beyond your true capability. And when you can’t assist, you will then seem uncaring.

Be as generous as you can with your perception of your partner and what you choose to give in the relationship. Give them the benefit of doubt, believe in the good and go the extra mile to be genuinely nice. Being kind is one of the simple but effective couple goals for a truly great kind of love. Spoil him/her with niceness.

10.) BE ROMANTIC
Let the soft breeze of love blows the gentle touch of romance Into the relationship. Never stop Hug, kiss, hold hands but let love lead.

This one is also pretty simple. It brings you closer, re-establishes connection and let true romance have a room. Make it a habit. Don’t stop. If you’re young or old, together short or long. Always hold hands. In bed, on the couch, in the street, in the park, at the shopping mall, under the table, in the cinema.
Keep love blazing.

11.) THINK AHEAD:

Always think ahead, plan for the future together. Review future plans and analyse it together. Because two good head is better than one fat fibre full head.

As much as fun can give your relationship happiness a boost, planning towards long-term goals provides security and sense of achievement that goes a long way to contentment and accomplishment. It also gives the stamp of security that it’s not weird to make long-term plans and affirms that you both see a future together.

12.) PREPARE TO HANDLE CONFLICTS: As there are days of smiles, merry and love. Register at the back of your mind that the dark days of doom may be fast approaching too. Days of quarrel over common things, moments of disagreement, anger in mind and the wish not to forgive. Is normal, but if you both can disagree to agree, love will have room to germinate.

Great relationships are built by two people who know how to forgive themselves  over and over again. You can’t have a good relationship if you keep grudges. So always create an atmosphere of forgiveness in your relationship.

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    In December of 2017, Donald Trump made history by recognizing Jerusalem as the capital of Israel. Why is this big news? Because by this the Jewish people of Israel are now able to press forward in bringing about the Third Temple prophesied in the Bible.

    Jewish Rabbis have publicly announced that their Messiah will be revealed in the coming years who will be a leader and spiritual guide to all nations, gathering all religions under the worship of one God.

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    “He causes all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and slave, to receive a mark on their right hand or on their foreheads, and that no one may buy or sell except one who has the mark or the name of the beast, or the number of his name.

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    “Then a third angel followed them, saying with a loud voice, “If anyone worships the beast and his image, and receives his mark on his forehead or on his hand, he himself shall also drink of the wine of the wrath of God, which is poured out full strength into the cup of His indignation. He shall be tormented with fire and brimstone in the presence of the holy angels and in the presence of the Lamb. And the smoke of their torment ascends forever and ever; and they have no rest day or night, who worship the beast and his image, and whoever receives the mark of his name” (Revelation 14:9-11).

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    “EITHER HUMAN INTELLIGENCE ULTIMATELY OWES ITS ORIGIN TO MINDLESS MATTER OR THERE IS A CREATOR…” – JOHN LENNOX

    We all know God exists. Why? Because without Him, we couldn’t prove anything at all. Do we live our lives as if we cannot know anything? No. So why is God necessary? In order to know anything for certain, you would have to know everything, or have revelation from somebody who does. Who is capable of knowing everything? God. So to know anything, you would have to be God, or know God.

    A worldview without God cannot account for the uniformity and intelligibility of nature. And why is it that we can even reason that God is the best explanation for this if there is no God? We are given reason to know or reject God, but never to know that He does not exist.

    It has been calculated by Roger Penrose that the odds of the initial conditions for the big bang to produce the universe that we see to be a number so big, that we could put a zero on every particle in the universe, and even that would not be enough to use every zero. What are the odds that God created the universe? Odds are no such thing. Who of you would gamble your life on one coin flip?

    Is there evidence that the Bible is the truth? Yes. Did you know that the creation accounts listed in the book of Genesis are not only all correct, but are also in the correct chronological order? That the Bible doesn’t say the Earth was formed in six 24-hour days but rather six long but finite periods of time? That the Bible makes 10 times more creation claims than all major “holy” books combined with no contradictions, while these other books have errors in them? The Bible stood alone by concurring with the big bang saying, “In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth” (Genesis 1:1); and says our universe is expanding, thousands of years before scientists discovered these things. Watch a potential life-changing video on the front page of http://WWW.BIBLEFREEDOM.COM with Astronomer(PhD) Hugh Ross explaining all these facts based on published scientific data. He has authored many books, backed even by atheist scientists.

    Jesus came to pay a debt that we could not; to be our legal justifier to reconcile us back to a Holy God; only if we are willing to receive Him: “For the wages of sin is death…” (Romans 6:23).

    God so loved the world that He gave us His only begotten son, so that whoever believes in Him, through faith, shall not perish, but have everlasting life. Jesus says if we wish to enter into life to keep the commands! The two greatest commands are to love God with all your heart, soul, strength, and mind; and your neighbor as yourself. All the law hang on these commands. We must be born of and lead by the Holy Spirit, to be called children of God, to inherit the kingdom. If we are willing to humble ourselves in prayer to Jesus, to confess and forsake our sins, He is willing to give the Holy Spirit to those who keep asking of Him; giving us a new heart, leading us into all truth!

    Jesus came to free us from the bondage of sin. The everlasting fire was prepared for the devil and his angels due to disobedience to God’s law. If we do the same, what makes us any different than the devil? Jesus says unless we repent, we shall perish. For sin is the transgression of the law. We must walk in the Spirit so we may not fulfill the lusts of the flesh, being hatred, fornication, drunkenness and the like. Whoever practices such things will not inherit the kingdom (Galatians 5:16-26). If we sin, we may come before Jesus to ask for forgiveness (1 John 2:1-2). Evil thoughts are not sins, but rather temptations. It is not until these thoughts conceive and give birth by our own desires that they become sin (James 1:12-15). When we sin, we become in the likeness of the devil’s image, for he who sins is of the devil (1 John 3:8); but if we obey Jesus, in the image of God. For without holiness, we shall not see the Lord (Hebrews 12:14).

    The oldest religion in the world is holiness through faith (James 1:27). What religion did Adam and Eve follow before the fall? Jesus, Who became the last Adam, what religion does He follow? Is He not holy? He never told us to follow the rituals and traditions of man but to take up our cross and follow Him (Luke 9:23). There are many false doctrines being taught leading people astray. This is why we need the Holy Spirit for discernment. Unlike religion, holiness cannot be created. It is given to us from above by the baptism of the Spirit. Jesus is more than a religion; He is about having a personal relationship with the Father. Start by reading the Gospel of Matthew, to hear the words of God, to know His character and commandments. Follow and obey Jesus, for He is the way, the truth, and the life!

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